Every person has a story for you to write

When life takes you away from your desk and your routine, look around. Raw material for your writing lurks everywhere.

I’m in San Francisco this week. My father had heart surgery here on Tuesday. I’m happy to report that he did spectacularly well and is recovering quickly. At 91, he’s the strongest man I know. So there’s a character for you: the nonagenarian widower determined to keep living on his own. Yes, we’ve all seen the clichéd movies of the week where a woman shows up and softens the heart of the grumpy old man, but don’t go there. Find the real human being and the real story behind him.

Here’s another character: the tall stylish black woman in the elevator shouting into her smart phone, “Don’t let them cut off her leg! It’s not like what happened to Joey.” She has a Bluetooth in her ear and holds her phone at waist level. When the other passengers get off at the second floor, she turns to me. “They want to cut my mama’s leg off. Nobody’s listening to me. I can’t let them do it.” She follows me off the elevator at the wrong floor, still talking, then pauses. “How the hell do I get out of this place? I hate this place.”


The curly-haired woman whose 56-year-old husband collapsed on Thanksgiving Day with an aortic aneurism the size of a grapefruit and underwent 10 hours of surgery while she waited, sure he was going to die. Today she follows him, smiling and brushing away tears as he takes his first steps around the intensive care unit, pushing an IV cart.

The woman from India whose husband also went to the hospital on Thanksgiving in need of a triple bypass. She waited all weekend for an opening in the surgery schedule. In the intensive care waiting room, she deals with phone calls from co-workers who can’t seem to do their jobs without her.

The young black woman at the security desk who has been working since 5 a.m. and is making her Christmas list between visitors.

The guy selling bread sculpted into the shape of flowers in the courtyard in front of the hospital.

The Italian-born surgeon hurrying into the cafeteria to buy sushi between heart surgeries. He wears green scrubs and stops to shake hands with three middle-aged people picking at salad-bar salads. Their father is next.

The man on the street digging cans and bottles out of a garbage can. Above his ragged tennis shoes, his bare ankles are grimed with dirt.

The tiny old man sitting on a plastic crate outside the Japanese cultural center.

The man in a suit waiting for the bus at Geary and Fillmore.

Every one of these people has a story, a real-life story we could tell if we interviewed them or a fictional one we can make up. There’s a poem to be written about each one, too. Use your imagination. Where are they going? Where do they live? What will they eat for dinner? Do they have spouses, children, lovers, cats? Do they have hundred dollar bills in their wallets or a few coins? When they woke up this morning, what was their first thought?

Wherever you are, look around and ask questions. You will never run out of stories, I promise.

Now go write.


Three tips: What is it like to be the Pope?

Once a week I am offering three quick tips that you can take and use right away. For those of us who would rather be writing than reading blogs, this is a place you can grab something useful and get back to work. If you have suggestions, please share them in the comments section.


Today I’m not going to name a specific title. Instead, I want you think about what you want to write and where you’d like to be published. If it’s a particular newspaper, magazine, literary journal or website, read it. Read every issue you can find, cover to cover, and take notes on what they have inside. You will not sell your work to any publication until you can prove that you understand what they publish and send them exactly what they want. Likewise, if you want to publish a particular kind of book, read as many books in that genre as you can so that you know exactly where and how your own manuscript fits. Don’t have time to read? Make the time. Real writers read.


I recently came upon Jeff Goins’ blog, which is full of inspiration and information for writers, as well as some enjoyable personal stories. One of the resources there is this great list of tips. Check it out at http://goinswriter.com/writing-tips/

Try This

Looking at the TV images of our new pope, Francis I, standing silently in that window at the Vatican yesterday, I wondered what might be going through his mind. With a puff of white smoke, his whole life has changed. He has given up his previous job, his home, friends, family, possessions, and even his native language to take this job with enormous responsibilities at an age when most men are retired. Open a blank page and write about what a person like Benedict might be thinking and feeling at the moment he takes his new position and faces millions of people cheering and shouting his name. It doesn’t have to be the pope. It could be a king or a president or a rock star. You could write a poem, a fictional scene, a monologue, an essay, an opinion piece or whatever feels right to you.

Now Go Write